You Can Have a "Light Body" Because of How You Think
Start using these mental techniques and you’ll see faster results
on your journey to losing weight.
Forgiveness as Weight-Loss Aid
Perhaps you started gaining
weight from the stress of a major-or even minor-life event.
If you can release the trauma and sadness from such events
and forgive the people associated with them, you can often
lose weight faster. To do this, use forgiveness. Forgiveness
is the act of pardoning without harboring grievances. The
key to success with forgiveness is persistence, tenacity,
and desire.
In virtually every religion in the world, forgiveness is
considered to be a highly sacred and spiritual practice.
Forgiveness has great power to heal wounds and release
weight. So, if you’re still carrying around the weight of
past experiences, use forgivenesses.
Make a list of everyone who was involved in your weight
issue. Be sure to include yourself. Then make up some
forgivenesses and write them down. Use the formula, “I,
(fill in your name), forgive you for (whatever the issue).”
Also write forgivenesses for yourself, such as, “I, (fill in
your name), forgive myself for (whatever the issue).”
For yourself, you could write the following:
- I forgive myself for overeating.
- I forgive myself for being overweight.
- I forgive myself for abusing my body with too much food.
Although it might sound somewhat shallow to forgive a person
so that you can lose weight, well, if you haven’t forgiven
them already, perhaps it’s time. And your weight situation
presents a treasured opportunity to let go of past grievances. We figure it doesn’t matter why you forgive. It
just matters that you do.
Ban Fat Thoughts
Stop telling yourself you are fat. Refuse to believe it even
when the mirror says otherwise. Here's a sample story about
Linda. When Linda was overweight, she cried about it a lot
and constantly talked about her problems with her weight,
eating, and food.
One day, as her husband once again dried
her tears, he said, “I think things would get a whole lot
better if you would just stop telling yourself you’re fat.” Linda, already wounded, said, “So what do you know?” Later
she had to apologize when she realized he knew a whole lot.
She stopped crying about her weight issue.
She stopped talking about it.
She stopped commiserating with her fat friends.
She stopped buying diet foods.
She stopped telling herself she was fat and ugly.
She stopped seeing food as the enemy.
She gained control of her eating and lost weight down to her
ideal size.
How High Is Your Desire?
Ask yourself what percentage of the time you are willing to
think and act as a thin person. How often are you willing to
eat 0 to 5? How often will you eat sensuously and
beautifully?
If your answer is about 50 percent of the time, your odds of
success are less than 50 percent, more like about 5 percent.
However, if you can give it your all, or 100 percent, for as
long as it takes, you will definitely get to your ideal
size.
Ask yourself this question every day: “What percentage of my
day was I a full participant in being a thin person?” If you
had moments that were less than 100 percent, review each
situation and ask yourself what you could have done better.
As long as you know deep in your heart that you are thinking
and eating as a thin person every day, you absolutely know
you will reach your goal.
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